“Everyone’s a critic.”
I’m not sure, but I feel like first heard that phrase in an old Bugs Bunny cartoon. Maybe Shakespeare said it in iambic pentameter. I don’t know. But we do love to criticize. “The ref made a bad call.” “That’s the wrong color for that room.” “That movie bombed because…” It goes on and on.
If you have an opinion, you’re probably convinced it’s better and more informed than the other guy’s.
An idea first presented to me in college is that the harshest critics of art are most often the most frustrated artists. “Those who can’t do teach, those who can’t teach become critics,” is probably true. I’ve said many times that it’s easier and more fun to knock down someone else’s tower of bricks than to build your own. And the more cleverly you can bulldoze that thing, with the right amount of wit and snark, the more attention you’ll get.
Artists, successful and frustrated alike, crave attention.
Even if the criticism provided is constructive and well-intentioned, sometimes it’s still rooted in taking an easier path. I find it much easier to summarize and give notes on a writer’s latest work than to actually build my own from whole cloth. People seem to appreciate my reviews, too, (and sometimes I get paid!) so I keep I writing them. Sometimes that means my fiction collects dust while I’m reading and writing, which, for my goals, is unfortunate.
What’s a guy to do?
Because I don’t want to forever be a critic and a teacher, but a doer, and I don’t want to only be known as a critic, there are really only three things I can do.
First, I have to keep dreaming. Yes, setting goals with deadlines is important. It’s just not always reasonable. There are only so many hours in a day and sometimes there aren’t any extra minutes. Especially for something as introspective as art. While it’s often seen as a petty excuse, sometimes you just have say, “Someday I’ll have time and do it.” If the “it” is your passion that nourish with dreams, I believe that “someday” will come, God willing.
Keep the dream alive.
Second, I can’t stop learning and must use every opportunity to do so. My brain never completely shuts off when I’m taking in a movie or book. I’m not just looking for things to praise or critique. Oh no. I’m looking for ideas I can steal. If there’s a technique I think I can pull off in one of my dream stories I’m going to remember and use it if applicable. Hemingway, I believe, wrote for four hours a day and read for two. If the best I can do is take in two hours of good content a day, I’ll do my best to bottle it up for the day when I have six hours of creative time.
Lifelong learners are happier people.
Finally (and this circles back to the first point), I have to keep the flow of ideas of moving. Any writer will tell you that sometimes working looks a lot like staring out the window or taking a nap. It’s not always about what hits the page so much as what happens in the imagination before that. Whenever I have a chance I do open the file with the novel or short story I want to write, but I’m always daydreaming in the quiet times.
Sometimes you have to fill the creative well, and sometimes you’ve got to open the tap just so things don’t calcify.
Maybe someday will never come. All I can do is keep the dream and passion alive.