I admit, some of my personal Thanksgiving traditions are a little odd. Sure I like to do the normal things, like watch the Macy’s Parade in the morning and the original Miracle on 34th Street in the evening (look closer, it’s a Thanksgiving movie). I like eating turkey, potatoes, and whatever pie I can get my hands on. If I can, I even like looking at the newspaper ads for all the upcoming sales.
But I also like kimchi with my turkey. No cranberry sauce required.
Along with my Korean sauerkraut, I have another odd tradition. Every Thanksgiving I watch the eighth episode of Buffy the Vampire Slayer’s fourth season, “Pangs.” Most die-hard Buffy fans don’t like the season when Buffy goes to college, and while the main arc isn’t its strongest there are some solid episodes. Perhaps none better than the Thanksgiving story.
Move over, Charlie Brown.
It’s Buffy’s first holiday on her own and, despite Willow’s woke worrying, she wants to host a traditional dinner with friends. All Willow can think about is how the Native Americans subsequently had their land stolen, as many today still do. For her, it's an empty holiday. “It’s a sham,” Buffy agrees, “but it’s a sham with yams. It’s a yam sham.” Willy remains unconvinced, and she's not the only one still upset about it.
There’s a spirit of vengeance on the loose.
While setting the foundation for a new building on the college campus earlier that day, Xander and the construction crew discovered an old mission. And by “discovered,” I mean Xander fell into it. As is wont to happen when you live on a Hellmouth, a Native spirit is unleashed to cause death and suffering on the current residents of Sunnydale. Now Xander has all the smallpox and syphilis the white people shared, and something is killing and taking the ears of the college admins.
Uh-oh.
Meanwhile, Spike has escaped the local black ops site with a chip in his neck that prevents a vampire from feeding. So it is that everyone gathers at Giles’ house, where Buffy is still trying to make the perfect dinner. She’s totally there because he’s their patriarch and should host and she's certainly not trying to stick him with all the cleanup. Yeah, he’s not buying it either. But they have bigger problems since the vengeance demon is raising an army of the undead to reclaim their land. Buffy says she personally would be ready to apologize if that would end this.
And that’s where things get interesting.
“I just can't take all this namby-pamby boo-hooing about the bloody Indians,” Spike says. “You won. All right? You came in and you killed them, and you took their land. That's what conquering nations do. It's what Caesar did, and he's not goin' around saying, ‘I came, I conquered, I felt really bad about it.’ The history of the world is not people making friends. You had better weapons, and you massacred them. End of story.”
Can you imagine this on TV today? It’s unthinkable.
Spike goes on. “You exterminated his race. What could you possibly say that would make him feel better? It's kill or be killed here. Take your bloody pick.” He’s not wrong, and even the Scooby gang has to admit it. While he doesn’t get into the deeper history, that the Native tribes were constantly at war and stealing land from each other, which we know it’s true even if it’s not discussed in our schools. It’s just the sad way of the world.
Ultimately, they have to defend themselves.
Buffy: Wasn't exactly a perfect Thanksgiving.
Xander: I don't know. Seemed kinda right to me. A bunch of anticipation, a big fight, and now we're all sleepy.
Obviously, I don’t watch this episode because I want to dwell on the bloodsoaked history of humanity. I watch it for the jokes, action, and clever turns of phrase. But I also appreciate the way Spike rejects the premise of the argument that we should feel guilty for the blessings we enjoy at this time of year. We should be thankful for peace in our time, even if it’s only temporary.
Willow: But, at least we all worked together and it was like old times.
Xander: Well, maybe we started a new tradition this year...
[Buffy looks at her]
Xander: Maybe not. But at least we all worked together.It was like old times.